Really depressed and lonely, virgin and never had a girlfriend, really getting me down?

You worry too much. I'm older than you and I have less experience, to be perfectly honest. I don't worry about it, though. I keep myself busy and I have a lot to think about. I don't compare myself to other people because then I'd only be setting myself up to feel bad. I've traveled a lot, I'm into different kinds of art, I'm taking leadership roles in my university and standing up for causes I believe in, and so I'm not ashamed of the life that I've lived. I stopped trying to get laid when I was 19. I've had a few opportunities since then that I ped up because of my standards. The girls I have been interested in didn't work out, but I moved on. Enjoy your life for what it is and stop feeling bad for what it's not. Soon, you'll start attracting the kinds of girls that you want.