Think i may be having a relationship breakdown?

Hun, I do not think he has stopped loving you, I think he has put his job and money as a priority. Men get self esteem from their work. They show their love by working hard for their family. And doing this, they sometimes miss the realization that they are avoiding the one person that means the most to them, and that is their wife. Now, on the other hand, once a woman begins to let herself go, he does not stop loving her, but he begins to see this as her no longer appreciating him and he begins to feel he no longer is important to her. Men usually do not voice these concerns, instead they dig themselves deeper into work. Hun, it is not so much the weight gain that is drawing a wedge between the both of you, it is the message he is receiving because of it. After all in the beginning you did all you could to look good for him and this makes a man feel special to his woman, when she goes out of her way to look beautiful for him. Get that book "The Proper Care & Feeding Of Husbands" by Dr Laura and you will understand more of what I am trying to tell you. You are to be commended for getting into a weight reduction program as this will benefit your self esteem and your health and because you will be more happy it will benefit your marriage as well. Good luck to you!