The daily happenings haunt me!!!! is there a way out of this paradox!!??

I am a college student and a tractable , docile person, but can p funny and intelligent comments on my friends ( esp girls). Everything occurs in a good spirit. Even i get bantered by them on many occasions. But there is this particular group of girls who kinds are rude or direct sumtimes, and i dont know what to do, i just keep smiling or just shrug it off ( i hope it happens in good spirit, but you know girls can become really bitchy sumtimes :)). it doesnt affect me at that point but when i come home and relax, sumtimes i get the feeling that "that was not good". I feel the hatred , but next day i go talk to them, coz they are my friends. its a cycle that keeps happening. I try to avoid the rudest one ( the devil) but she comes with me, and cant even make fun of her coz she will usually be very rude and belittling. its not a big prob, but i really hate it sumtimes. feel like to seperate from them.